Despite how precious a relationship may be, both
partners should know that, when misunderstanding arises, a third party can only
contribute their best, the ultimate decisions rest on the shoulders of both
partners to always sort out their differences and come to a mutual
understanding. Therefore, following the right principles will go a long way in
straightening things out. As we gradually come to terms with reality in all
ramifications of life. Something must keep us going, notwithstanding. And for
the most part, that something always happens to be passion. Since love is a choice, it doesn’t happen out
of thin air, something must drive it: what could this be?
As love happens to be a choice; we choose who to be
with and who not to be with. Our decision could be right or wrong, time always
tells when the season is due. Nevertheless, when we tend to make such choice;
genuine reason should be the key to driving us in the right direction. As we
are headed in this right direction, a path is created to a place called home;
which in most cases, a place where our heart is. In this respect, where does
our heart rest? Who our heart is with? What does our heart want? And how does
our heart love?
Irrespective of the fact that individual wants are
different, we all crave to be loved. Certain questions keep crossing our minds:
Where do we get it? Who gives it to us? What do we do with it? How do we give
it back depends on our individual choices. But we will be looking at it from a
generic sense, by putting love at the center of the whole thing. For a plant to
grow and bring forth food and fruits, it needs seed, water and sunlight.
How the relationship is defined lays the path to how it
germinates. Pleasant and encouraging words can create a very fertile soil for
your farmland or plantation. Having firsthand knowledge is crucial to managing
the balance in your emotional bank account; which should always be in the black
rather than red, as God initially ordained it.
Now, it is left for both parties to tend and keep the
relationship moving in the right direction without resentment or reservations.
Uplifting words should always be the order of the day no matter the
circumstances. To keep this going, the basis of the relationship should be one
of mutual acceptance. Not based on the wants of life; but on the needs that
make the heart grow and cherished. Both partners should have to come to an
understanding of regarding each other as comparable; rendering help wherever
deem fit and working together for the betterment of the future.
Any sense of entitlement and superiority should be
erased from the psyche. Patience and humility are indispensable elements in
reaching toward a much genuine love. Some of the things that bring chaos to a
stable relationship are things that have no lasting value. Also known as wants.
When we are not contented with who we are with, we begin to look for ways to
distance ourselves, by bringing in one claims or the other based on false
assumptions. Even with our natural flaws as humans, we always need to rekindle
our efforts in making our relationships better each and every day. So any
tempting offer from outside parties or peer pressure should be thoroughly
weighed under the scale. Advice is good, though with good intentions.
Staying keen on your heart desire toward your partner
create a way for constant renewal of what brought you both together in the
first place. Being tempted from the outside will be out of the question. Other
vices especially jealousy, will be swept away and the fountain of pure water
toward a much real love will continue to spring up.
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