Out
of blue, genuine humility and constant patience will flow naturally, paving the
way for a tolerant and compassionate environment. As things progress, your joy
will glow and mirror your partner, producing a sense of peace in your
relationships with people. Because the most dangerous thing that causes lasting
damage to our relationship is pride.
Maintaining
our sense of dignity should be kept intact. However, pride should always be put
in check. When it is given a slight chance to take root, we begin to think so
highly of ourselves and see others as non-entities. In a situation or place
where we are expected to display such attitude, it makes more sense to avoid
such, in order not to make ugly mess of ourselves down the line. No one knows
everything, and in any case where you have nothing tangible or inspiring today;
it is better to say I don’t know or keep shut. Evermore, be moved to ask the
right people questions when you don’t know. Asking the right people in the
sense that, they won’t have to make mockery of your circumstances.
A
relationship built on the comprehension that increase learning makes way for
open doors ushers in the breezes of comfort. A boat paddling to a direction is
not stagnant. So is also working toward a real love. There are certain
ingredients to keep it yummy and always tasty, just like the apple pie or
chocolate cake. When the heart is flourished with love, what you do comes easy.
You will increase in kind and become a better person as the sunset and sunrise.
Your
body and immune system will be refreshed; revitalizing your entire nervous
system and makes you look younger. There will be a fundamental change in your temperament,
for the better.
There
are some issues that will come up, that would warrant both partners to iron it
out themselves by taken it to God, asking him for divine wisdom. In fact, 90%
of the issues should be discussed by both partners, since they share common
interest in unifying the center. Outside interference could disrupt their view
and approach toward life may be quite different from the partners involved.
Except in extreme cases should it be put into consideration?
Meanwhile,
like I emphasized before, staying close to experienced people and learning from
their mistakes would give you a sense of compassion toward your mate in putting
their point of view into perspective. Under no circumstances or quarrel should
you drag their dignity to the mud to rubbish them in the open. This is where
protecting their integrity comes in. And whatever secret you may know of them
should not be leaked out.
In
the case of any event, no matter how messy it may look or seen. Accepting each others fault, turning weaknesses into strength yields good fruits and builds
one’s character, thereby taking the relationship to a new level of maturity.
The major act that plants discord in a relationship is listening to gossip.
There is nothing that can damage a good relationship than listening to side
talks. Whether good or bad, whenever or wherever an issue is whispered under
the sun or moon; do not be part of it. Hear from the horse’s mouth and properly
weigh the issue from an independent mind without bias will do more good than
harm.
On
the high seas, you will come across naysayers, be mindful of them, and do not
learn their ways. Your love life needs to be grounded on what truly matters. So
that together, you can wage any storm and continue moving forward. Take note
that not everyone will be happy with your relationship based on trivial reasons
which could be a social construct such as class, religion, race, ethnicity, etc.
A mind and heart centered on working toward perfect love conquers all. Just as
the waters on the high seas are not stagnant, so both partners needs to put the
precious thing they share ahead of their differences, not to give room to
persistent outside pressure in bringing your happiness to a standstill.
It
needs to keep flowing, out of the heart like a stream of living waters. Every
once in a while, it is better to imagine yourself and your partner, on an
island together, swinging on a spring of perpetual balance. Taking a break from
everyone including work, and go to a secluded romantic spot, in reminiscent of
time, on good memory lane, new ones can be created and every form of negativity
can be purged out, ventilating fresh air.
Sailing
on a proper platform toward real love requires preparation. In the sense that
you need to prepare yourself mentally, psychologically, spiritually and
otherwise to face any form of challenges that comes your way. Where your faith
comes from depends on you. Staying on firm ground with God on your side is what
definitely matters. It helps to meditate over good advice of those who have our
best interest at heart. But we must be weary of those whose words do not speak
life into our love life. Though, being realistic often calls for reason,
renewal should always be the center of our theme.
A
root laid on the truth of love will always sustain good fruits. Both partners
will not always walk in sync, we are not robots, rather are we a computer
program. Uptick of emotions is bound to take place. Keeping it in check and
turning the negative into positive energy is fundamental to the long term
growth of the relationship.
When
trouble comes along in a relationship, and the bond both partners share does
not stand the test of time, the foundation should be rechecked, and the spring
holding it should be renewed. All relationships are not bed of roses, as much
as it brings joy to our lives, the bad should reignite the joy toward a genuine
love. Notwithstanding that partners ought to share a lot in common, and being
there for each other at all times, as people, we are individually unique.
For
the most part, we should be treated as such, so we need space to ourselves to
do what we always love doing. Instead of lamenting against such, we should pay
attention and be there for our partners through thick and thin. Nourishing
their potential and bringing out the best in them should be harnessed in a
light and heartfelt manner. In certain situations, you may be uncomfortable
with what your partner is doing, this could create tensions that would trigger
into a much bigger problems.
Rather
than keep quite like it doesn’t exist, it is better to talk it out in the open
and make each other see reasons. Denial is not an option under any
circumstances, because if it is not addressed initially, similar arguments
could ensue and the whole thing would burst into flames, leading to more
problems. As issue should be approached wisely and be done with. Repeating it
will only revive old wounds which hinders the stream that flows toward a much
heartfelt love. To rebuke each other with the right words should be welcomed,
for it makes one to learn from mistakes, amend things and move on with life. No
one is above correction, for it helps in strengthening the foundation.
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